tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47326889196015253602024-03-13T02:19:18.541+00:00The Womb Twin World BlogA blog for womb twin survivors around the worldWomb Twin World Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11590190034990099692noreply@blogger.comBlogger146125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-26993863457213562442020-05-15T19:26:00.000+01:002020-05-16T16:50:08.380+01:00Womb Twin Survivors are Strong Thrivers during COVID-19 Pandemic (per Twindividual Chat)Womb Twin Survivors have lived their entire lives in pandemic-like themes due to their pre/peri-natal life-and-death imprints: sudden disruption, despair, grief, isolation, incessant loneliness, uncontrollable chaos, impending doom, life/death coping for survival, feeling responsible for others while needing to be ‘Self’ish, lack of support for grieving important yet unknown losses.<br />
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Womb Twins live their lives still connected to their primary bonds from the womb, causing contradictions which are becoming evident in the pandemic for all: here/not here, healthy/terminal, close/distant, comfort together/suffering alone, everything/nothing, threat/safety, alive/dead...loved ones dying alone, unwitnessed just like our womb twins. Womb Twin Survivors are the lone witnesses who never forgot and suffer the affects of traumatic loss daily. They were originally conceived as twins/multiples but got born as singletons ... they don't feel lucky, they start their day crying unconsolable tears of deep inner tragedy nobody knows about...and now this. This seems familiar...we know how to do this.<br />
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Pandemic society must be concerned with the dangers of proximity which is so very Womb Twin, “alone together” is helping WTS to feel connected in ways that weren’t possible before. We can rise up and share our gifts of coping and survival with others, recognizing our strengths as well as our weaknesses, bridging gaps between the born and unborn worlds of relational dynamics.<br />
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On the other end of the spectrum, familiar themes are potential ‘triggers’ for activating old memories in our imprint which can dysregulate us, send us out of our window of tolerance and into Hyper or Hypo Arousal. Womb Twins live in Flight-or-Flight mode until they heal, always scanning for danger because they’ve witnessed, in fact marinated in, life-threatening, inescapable events before birth with their closest bond(s) so the way this sits in the mindbody is similar - in fact, the pandemic feels ‘normalizing’ to many WTS who walk around with an inner story nobody knows about. Now, we ALL have an ‘invisible enemy.’ Finally, the outer world is matching the inner world...there is recognition and there are resources…this is a whole new reality - that is the shocking part for Womb Twins in this, not the familiar trauma of death and chaos.<br />
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Many WTS feel responsible for the death of their twin causing intense survivor guilt. During the pandemic, shopping can be a challenge because they don’t know what an acceptable level of hoarding is against their original wiring to be a twin - they tend to go to either end of the spectrum: I must buy more than two+ of everything so we have enough or I feel too guilty getting all the food while others die so I will go without. Another intense theme is boundaries and invasion-control, especially for twins who absorbed their twin, boundaries are difficult but we need them strong for protection now. Everyone does. So even on a cellular level, this levels the playing field for Womb Twins who have always felt different than everyone else.<br />
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Now we are in this together, the Womb Twin healing is all around despite the adversities:
We see the Covid-quarantined Womb Twin Survivor Father isolated from family learning new ways of valuing his survival skill to stay alive in confusion and loneliness. We see the Womb Twin Survivor Pandemic Nurse learning to practice self-care rather than get depleted due to compensation of her womb story - ‘saving her twin’ at the expense of herself and getting burned-out on long shifts would be an easy way to compensate for survivor guilt and regress to the comfort of the womb out of exhaustion, only to find the same life/death themes in the inner split of twin duality - so ensuring nourishment, rest and repair is critical to maintaining a strong, singular Self on the front lines called Life. Everyone is watching now and not being alone with it helps Womb Twins tremendously.<br />
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Spectrum of Womb Twin Survivor PTSD Issues which align with the Covid-19 pandemic:<br />
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-STILLNESS - CHAOS<br />
-ANXIETY - NUMB<br />
-AVOIDING - MERGING<br />
-HOARDING - SCARCITY<br />
-IMPENDING DOOM - SAFETY<br />
-TOO CLOSE - TOO FAR<br />
-UNCERTAINTY - CONTROL<br />
-HYPER - HYPO VIGILANCE<br />
-BOUNDARIES - INVASION<br />
-ENDURING - DWINDLING<br />
-EXISTENT - NON-EXISTENT<br />
-IDENTITY CONFUSION - AUTHENTICITY<br />
-HELPING OUR TWIN NOT DIE - HELPLESS WHILE OTHERS DIE<br />
-SINGLETON - TWIN / MULTIPLE REACTION MODES<br />
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Some Valid Womb Twin Questions:<br />
-What is a “normal” amount of hoarding:<br />
am I hoarding for one, two or more? or none?<br />
-What is an “appropriate” amount of self-sacrifice:<br />
am I giving for one, two or more? or none?<br />
-How can sudden silence mean peace & protection, not death & despair?<br />
-How do we manage reactions for Singletons in death panic vs Twins/Twinless/WombTwins?
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Challenge for All:<br />
Staying Regulated and Empowered by being Proactive rather than Reactive, while navigating familiar themes involving real life/death, fight/flight now - together, not alone - knowing that this is a new reaction under similar themes but that it is separate and can have its own new path and outcome.<br />
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Opportunities Now:
Womb Twins are maximizing this time to allow themselves to feel more entitled to surviving/thriving/sustainability, passing their survival wisdom on to others, empowered to feel more authentic with their gifts in the world.<br />
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The Womb Twin Survivor curve is likely flattening due to the suspension of IVF/ART procedures as well as parenting reconsiderations, this prevents untold suffering, as we manage effects already in existence. There are very positive developments going on in the WTS community despite the human tragedy we are all facing at this time. Overall, despite some triggers, Womb Twin Survivors worldwide are on the front lines surviving and thriving, as they have since before day one, ready to create the new day.<br />
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To learn more about Womb Twin Survivors and their pre-natal imprints, stay tuned for SocialBeforeBirth.com and wombTV launching soon...<br />
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Thanks for reading - stay healthy + safe out there!Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-35256089942301671422019-10-05T18:06:00.002+01:002020-09-05T20:10:25.279+01:00Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-32330734641166218752016-08-13T23:57:00.002+01:002016-08-13T23:57:40.081+01:00Honoring the legacy of Althea HaytonIt's been two years since Womb Twin founder, Althea Hayton, passed from this realm in body - yet her spirit continues to infuse healing miracles all around the world because the work she developed is so effective. She dedicated the last seven years of her life to developing Womb Twin syndrome theories and healing path and we have since carried on the work with impressive results - it holds up for the older womb twin survivors as well as the new crop of IVF babies coming of age.
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Today let us remember and give thanks to a great woman who dared to dream beyond the limits in order to carve out new territory for womb twin survivors to have a place to go for help and understanding, which the world is getting closer to embracing. She always said one day the world will get it and then it will be huge. We've gone from baby steps to toddler steps and continue to adapt the work to the needs of Womb Twins everywhere, no matter their age or womb story. We can help now, thanks to Althea.
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Everyday she is very much alive in the Womb Twin realm and we couldn't be luckier to live in a time where she made this possible.
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Blessings!
Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-35898300919976339862016-06-09T03:41:00.002+01:002016-06-09T03:45:12.440+01:00The Physical Challenges of Very Young Womb Twin SurvivorsQuestion: <br>What physical challenges does a newborn Womb Twin Survivor face?
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Because mind body & spirit are interconnected, separating out physical symptoms is difficult because they include deeply emotional/psychospiritual components. All symptoms are a direct result of the what happened in the womb for the survivor and each womb story is unique, so how the symptoms manifest depends on the experience. Details such as when the twin was lost, how it was lost, gender, zygosity, etc. shape the outcome. There are trends seen among womb twin survivors such as:<br>
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-Newborns can be in shock not only from the trauma of losing their twin but having to navigate birth solo and thus separate from the mother, when separation already means death. They may be unable to sleep or unable to wake up, they may cry incessantly and be clingier than other babies.
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-Sometimes symptoms arise from the NICU depending on the length of time & experience there. The baby, in shock, loses critical attachment bonding with mother due to the often lengthy stay - which is an important "twin replacement" bond that would ease the transition into born life alone but instead, being cared for by various nurses reinforces separation anxiety which can stress the baby and have all kinds of physical repercussions. <br>
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-They need to feel a physical barrier in their proprioception to remind them of the good time with their twin (when space was tighter), rather than feel the vulnerability of open space such as when their twin died leaving them alone in it, which they feel guilty about taking up by themselves. The baby will smash it's body into the corner of the crib or cling tightly to another object. (google "The Rescuing Hug" videoclip)
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-The baby may appear despondent with inward eyes due to their intense inner nature and hypersensitivity. They may delay speech to hold on to the non-verbal relationship imprint of their twin.
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-They may exhibit anomalies such as dermoid cyst, chimerism, 3rd nipple, extra digits or teeth or other unusual markings/features. Ambidexterity. Skin sensitivity/Hypersensitivity.
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-All kinds of eating issues show up, from mild to severe, usually originating from feeling guilty about getting more food and surviving. WTS often want to stay small and not be bigger than anyone, not grow, so they can be like their twin or they will show up the size of two or three people, eating for them all. Alternating between the two (as in yoyo dieters) is wonderful way to express duality which is their twin nature. (Not all WTS have these issues, it depends on what happened in the womb).
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-As toddlers they may follow/stay in close proximity to caregivers in order to bond and make sure their "twin replacement" doesn't disappear.
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-They may exhibit twin confusion by treating a favorite pillow or blanket like a person and go into panic if the object is lost. (buy two of a favorite thing so you have a replacement to avoid this).
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-They may have a different sense of boundaries and safety - both personally and interpersonally (usually lacking).
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-They may express thoughts about death, dying, killing, etc. as a way to articulate the confusing, unspeakable death which they witnessed before birth.
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What can you do to help a very young Womb Twin Survivor? Foster their brilliance while dialing down their triggers, this will help give them the energy to navigate the day and grow. Give them comfort and love. Pick and choose when to give in - they need alot of attention generally but proper boundaries shouldn't be compromised, they should be reinforced (WTS need to learn to navigate the world just like everyone else even though they are quite different). Disagreements, disapproval, separations of any kind are threatening to a WTS so be ready for an unusual amount of anger (too much or too little). Do your best not to judge, be consistent and authentic. Be patient when they flip flop from alpha to beta, they are often two people in one so it gets confusing! Awareness is key...and we can learn to bring out the best in our very special Womb Twin Survivors.<br>Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-12332538413581697602015-12-06T16:59:00.000+00:002015-12-06T17:03:40.504+00:00Womb Twin Presence for the Holidays<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<p> <br>Holiday time is upon us...it can be a difficult time for those in grief, particularly Womb Twin Survivors who may feel sad or guilty celebrating without their twin or who feel different from their loved ones at times of "togetherness". It can be a busy time of comings and goings and symbolic representation, a reflective time and a depressing & disappointing time. So how can we get through another holiday successfully? What strategies might we use to get through the holidays, year to year and how does that change over time? </p>
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I spent many years in agony during this time because all in a row were big dates which were excruciatingly difficult yet I had to be "on" in a world that didn't understand:
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<b>Dec21</b>- Womb Twin Day (reflection)<br>
<b>Dec22</b>- My birthday (weird being celebrated without my born twin)<br>
<b>Dec23</b>- My twin death date (she lived 24 hours)<br>
<b>Dec24&25</b>- Christmas Eve & Christmas (rejoicing)<br>
<b>Dec31</b>- New Years Eve & my son's birthday (renewal)<br>
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The balancing act between our inner and outer worlds, with all the triggers inherent in family gatherings, can be managed with a little care and foresight. The key is to not let your beta-sabotage take over your annual memory as a way to keep your twin alive. This is your holiday and you deserve to enjoy all the blessings of your life. You deserve to connect and share bonds of love with everyone dear to you, regardless of who is here or who is not. So here are some tips for staying in the alpha-present as you approach this tender time:</p>
-Take control & don't get overwhelmed. Say no if it doesn't feel right and own your decision. Don't feel guilty about anything - it's up to you how you spend your time, who you spend it with, what you eat or drink, where you travel or stay, how active or restful you choose to be. So be sure to say yes to all you need to create for who you are now. It's all up to you, after all it's your holiday and these are your born memories to create.
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-Don't have any expectations because you are bound to be disappointed - someone will say the wrong thing, you will get the wrong gift, or any other mechanism will come up to prove that nobody else can ever be your twin. Don't go down this road!
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-Channel Emotions in Separate Buckets: use Womb Twin Day Dec 21 to have your twin reflection/ritual time, or do something to celebrate the upcoming holidays privately with your twin first so that the twin part of yourself is acknowledged. Then you can face the holidays without feeling like something is missing. It's ok to acknowledge the part of you that is a twin, if it helps you feel balanced going into the holidays as an individual. Delineate both identities in yourself and create appropriate holiday rituals for each.
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-Prepare an out so you can easily get a break from the overstimulation - of lights, colors, shiny textures, laughter, gluttony. Remember to have some down time, this is your time to relax after a year full of hypersensitivity and navigating emotional landscapes just to feel "normal".
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-Affirm "this is my memory to have and it's ok" - enjoy yourself!
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-Give yourself a symbolic twin gift. Wrap it and open it. You can be the Self who gives a gift to their Twin AND you can be the Twin who receives a gift from their Twin as well as a Self who receives a gift from their Twin. Feel all the ways of being and allow them to resonate. (I thought I was a Self giving a gift to my Self all these years until I realized it was a twin ritual.)
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-Be present, that's the best gift of all. Don't disappear or feel invisible just to feel close to your twin. Your twin is where your twin needs to be and you are where you need to be. Now be here!! You just have to give yourself permission...
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Happy Holidays to all the special Womb Twins of the World! May your holidays be happy and free, allowing you to shine!
Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-7297371588589719192015-10-07T18:17:00.001+01:002015-10-07T18:34:53.680+01:00InUtero Film: mass consciousness is beginning to embrace what WTS already know<a href="http://www.inuterofilm.com/"></a><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nR7rZzDOgx0/VhVXtZSAdwI/AAAAAAAAAt0/C4UO2AnyeoQ/s1600/IMG_7134.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nR7rZzDOgx0/VhVXtZSAdwI/AAAAAAAAAt0/C4UO2AnyeoQ/s320/IMG_7134.JPG" /></a></div>Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-53120782219655844872015-08-17T14:02:00.002+01:002015-08-17T14:02:35.788+01:00One Year since Althea Left her Legacy to Us
<p>It's been one year since Womb Twin founder, Althea Hayton, passed from this realm on Aug 13 2014 leaving a rich legacy that is being realized more and more with each passing day. To honor her life and work, I have made it my personal mission to do what I can on her behalf to push forward her ideas, raise awareness, practice the healing techniques, document findings via the blogs and continue to adapt what Althea started to fast-changing times in order to ensure relevancy to the younger womb twins coming forward - for the womb twins Althea based her foundational work on were different than those coming forward now. Early days included work with older womb twin survivors who often had no proof but found tremendous healing with this discovery/modality after years of other attempts not quite solving it. Today we see younger womb twin survivors who always knew because they had proof of Vanishing Twin Syndrome or knew they were conceived as a twin/multiple through methods of IVF/ART. Future work will need to facilitate the changing needs of survivors of Multi Fetal Pregnancy Reduction. And I'm seeing new synergies among Living Twins whose pre-natal imprints cause issues and how this work can help them get to the source. I'm seeing more people who are both Living Twins and Womb Twin Survivors. The walls between camps are coming down as we realize that people can be all: a living twin can be a womb twin survivor triplet who becomes a twinless twin who then must come to terms with their individuality. Although the landscape has become ever-more complicated, the healing set forth by Althea Hayton holds up through it all. Her development of this syndrome and healing path have been the extraordinary solution for some already but, in my opinion, the real power of what it's meant to transform is yet to come. I'm proud to say the work is proving effective in every type of scenario.</p>
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To recap the year, here are some highlights of the work I have been doing:<br>
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- Leading healing sessions by skype from NYC across Europe and US (one brave soul did her first womb regression while traveling by ferry from Finland to Sweden - a wi fi-enabled amniotic reenactment!)
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- Two effective healing cases both involving womb triplets with eating disorders/body dismorphia/depression/suicide, others in progress<br><br>
- Launch of new website Twindividual (still in progress) to broaden the scope of womb twin survivor syndrome to accommodate the new complexity discussed above<br><br>
- Blog Posts linked to pop-culture events like 'Caitlyn Jenner's transformation' or 'Evil Twin removed from Brain' were placed on social media to insert Womb Twin into the mass conversation causing spikes in visits to our sites
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- Our Blog & Womb Twin clip was quoted by a preeminent German prenatal psychologist at a lecture to psychologists, gynecologists, mid-wives, teachers, social workers etc. to make a broader public familiar with the effects of prenatal traumas one of which of course is the loss of a twin in the womb
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- Developed a new womb regression technique utilizing float pods (a sensory deprivation saltwater tank) which can be used for anyone - the masses can access their potential 1 in 8 wombtwinness, womb twins can float safely with guidance to access and resolve womb trauma, any kind of womb/birth memory can be worked with in this state of relaxed regression.
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- Documentary: shooting a film which will showcase Womb Twin Survivor syndrome featuring a 15 yr old Vanishing Twin Survivor who bravely speaks her truth and exposes her coping journey. After 3 therapists and psychiatric hospitals failed, just 5 months of womb twin work gave her a new level of comfort in life eliminating unwanted behaviors such as eating disorders & self harm, releasing survivor guilt and allowing her to step into her Alpha power. Several other subjects have been shot and will also be featured as smaller youtube segments (coming later this year) including: a revealing conversation with a transsexual who admits she was probably a twin as she discovers the idea for the first time and we trace her history to put the clues together and a state-of-the-union chat with twin psychologist Dr. Barbara Klein, author of Alone In The Mirror among other books, in her Beverly Hills office. <br>
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- Future Podcast: developing a live podcast in conjunction with twin psychologist Dr. Barbara Klein because we believe living twins, twinless twins and womb twin survivors all have the same stuff and can all help each other. Because people can fit more than one of these categories, synergy is needed across the board.
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- Womb Twin seeds were planted at the Twin Days Festival in Twinsburg, OH in August. Any volunteers for next year?
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- Beginning efforts to lobby legislation to make Womb Twin Survivor Syndrome listed as a risk/side effect of ART/IVF methods
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There are more things in the works to keep the healing legacy alive, for Althea lit a flame that will continually be an inferno of transformation for those who need it & find it and have the diligence to see the work through, in order to reclaim their rightful inheritance to a comfortable, happy life! Passing the work on continues the healing, so feel free to volunteer time or help with donations for research by contacting us...please help pass Althea's torch! There's so much to do...
Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-11093416987953227842015-07-13T18:31:00.001+01:002015-07-13T18:33:26.385+01:00Preemie 1 lb. baby fights for life but life without her twin will be her biggest struggle<p>This is a gut-wrenching story that happens more than most people realize...the journey to become healthy twins is often perilous and frought with many hurdles which keep presenting themselves as quickly as they can be overcome.<br>
<a href="http://www.people.com/article/portugal-babymoon-couple-stranded-twins"> Portugal Babymoon Couple Stranded Twins Article </a> </p>
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Despite the tremendous fight Hayden Grace is up against, living life without her twin will be worse than all of it. It may even cause her to give up the fight. Most womb twins feel they got the raw end of the deal and, if given the choice, want to be with their twin - even more than life itself.
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On a more positive note, Womb Twin Survivors are super-charged with fight-or-flight adrenalin so their "survival" instinct is in full gear, and they have the power of two in them, so hopefully this is enough to overcome the psychospiritual shock which has become their birthright - not to mention the medical/biological challenges of extreme prematurity.
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I too was born at six months - 3 months premature with a twin (I was 3 lbs, she was 2 lbs), spending two months in NICU without attachment bonding, way before they knew the value of touch and light therapy. It took two months for me to gain the 2 lbs needed to go home a 5 pounder and the psychological impact of this ordeal has taken years to heal. What could've been 60 days and nights of breastfed bonding to help ease my twinloss turned into 60 days of abandonment and isolation on top of my twin loss but thankfully the nurses on duty got me through.
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The knowledge we have gleaned in the past half-century since my birth is a blessing which allows many more preemies to survive, we know so much more about what to do (i.e. the "rescuing hug")but our continued ignorance prevents prevention. Every day we learn more about the mistakes we make, and how to manage them, but as the world continues scratching its head about the reality of womb twin survivors, we miss chances at prevention. We need to raise awareness so that people can make informed choices about their procreative decisions. What can we do? Here are some ideas
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- Talk to people in their 20's and 30's about starting families earlier - delayed conception is risky <br>
- Lobby Government to include Womb Twin Survivor Syndrome as one of the risks factors in choosing IVF/ART and Multiple Fetal Pregnancy Reduction <br>
- Speak out about how you, as a Womb Twin Survivor, are affected <br>
- Volunteer at your local NICU to help cuddle preemies which are often Womb Twin Survivors, the recognition Womb Twin Survivors feel with each other can only help these little ones thrive. <br>
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<br>Don't miss all the opportunities which exist every day for Womb Twins to raise awareness, we are walking billboards for the cause because we live with the effects everyday. Sheer persistence alone can strengthen the case that we are not making this up (which is what the world conveniently wants us to believe). </p>Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-37111243323825254042015-05-10T21:25:00.001+01:002015-05-11T22:00:44.062+01:00 What is the correlation between Personality Disorders and Womb Twin Survivor Syndrome?<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="mso-no-proof: yes;">This
question often comes up due to the common occurrence of misdiagnosis that
happens for Womb Twin Survivors who are wrongly labeled/treated until they find
the Womb Twin Healing Path as a solution which allows them a comfort level with
living not previously achieved with other methods.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Millon's brief description of personality disorders<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-Millon-24">[24]</a></sup></span></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Paranoid</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Guarded,
defensive, distrustful and suspiciousness. Hypervigilant to the motives of
others to undermine or do harm. Always seeking confirmatory evidence of
hidden schemes. Feel righteous, but persecuted. People with paranoid
personality disorder are characterized by a pattern of pervasive distrust and
suspiciousness of others which last for a long time. They are generally
difficult to work with.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-25">[25]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Schizoid</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Apathetic,
indifferent, remote, solitary, distant, humorless. Neither desire nor need
human attachments. Withdrawn from relationships and prefer to be alone.
Little interest in others, often seen as a loner. Minimal awareness of the
feelings of themself or others. Few drives or ambitions, if any. Is an
uncommon condition in which people avoid social activities and consistently
shy away from interaction with others. It affects more males than females. To
others, they may appear somewhat dull or humorless. Because they don't tend
to show emotion, they may appear as though they don't care about what's going
on around them.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-26">[26]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Schizotypal</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Eccentric,
self-estranged, bizarre, absent. Exhibit peculiar mannerisms and behaviors.
Think they can read thoughts of others. Preoccupied with odd daydreams and
beliefs. Blur line between reality and fantasy. Magical thinking and strange
beliefs. People with schizotypal personality disorder are often described as
odd or eccentric and usually have few, if any, close relationships. They
generally don't understand how relationships form or the impact of their
behavior on others.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-27">[27]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Antisocial</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Impulsive,
irresponsible, deviant, unruly. Act without due consideration. Meet social
obligations only when self-serving. Disrespect societal customs, rules, and
standards. See themself as free and independent. People with antisocial
personality disorder depict a long pattern of disregard for other people's
rights. They often cross the line and violate these rights.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-28">[28]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Borderline</span></b><span style="background: silver; font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Unpredictable,
manipulative, unstable. Frantically fears abandonment and isolation.
Experience rapidly fluctuating moods. Shift rapidly between loving and
hating. See themself and others alternatively as all-good and all-bad.
Unstable and frequently changing moods. People with borderline personality
disorder have a pervasive pattern of instability in interpersonal
relationships.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-29">[29]</a></sup><span style="background: silver; mso-highlight: silver;"></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Dramatic,
seductive, shallow, stimulus-seeking, vain. Overreact to minor events.
Exhibitionistic as a means of securing attention and favors. See themself as
attractive and charming. Constantly seeking others' attention. Disorder is
characterized by constant attention-seeking, emotional overreaction, and
suggestibility. Their tendency to over-dramatize may impair relationships and
lead to depression, but they are often high-functioning.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-30">[30]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Narcissistic</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Egotistical,
arrogant, grandiose, insouciant. Preoccupied with fantasies of success,
beauty, or achievement. See themself as admirable and superior, and therefore
entitled to special treatment. Is a mental disorder in which people have an
inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. Those
with narcissistic personality disorder believe that they're superior to
others and have little regard for other people's feelings.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-31">[31]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Avoidant</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Hesitant,
self-conscious, embarrassed, anxious. Tense in social situations due to fear
of rejection. Plagued by constant performance anxiety. See themself as inept,
inferior, or unappealing. They experience long-standing feelings of
inadequacy and are very sensitive of what others think about them.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-32">[32]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Helpless,
incompetent, submissive, immature. Withdrawn from adult responsibilities. See
themself as weak or fragile. Seek constant reassurance from stronger figures.
They have the need to be taken care of by a person. They fear being abandoned
or separated from important people in their life.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-33">[33]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Obsessive–compulsive</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Restrained,
conscientious, respectful, rigid. Maintain a rule-bound lifestyle. Adhere
closely to social conventions. See the world in terms of regulations and
hierarchies. See themself as devoted, reliable, efficient, and productive.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Somber,
discouraged, pessimistic, brooding, fatalistic. Present themself as
vulnerable and abandoned. Feel valueless, guilty, and impotent. Judge
themself as worthy only of criticism and contempt. Hopeless, Suicidal,
Restless. This disorder can lead to aggressive acts and hallucinations.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-34">[34]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Resentful,
contrary, skeptical, discontented. Resist fulfilling others’ expectations.
Deliberately inefficient. Vent anger indirectly by undermining others’ goals.
Alternately moody and irritable, then sullen and withdrawn. Withhold
emotions. Will not communicate when there is something problematic to
discuss.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-35">[35]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Explosively
hostile, abrasive, cruel, dogmatic. Liable to sudden outbursts of rage. Gain
satisfaction through dominating, intimidating and humiliating others. They
are opinionated and close-minded. Enjoy performing brutal acts on others.
Find pleasure is abusing others. Would likely engage in a sadomasochist
relationship, but will not play the role of a masochist.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-psychcentral.com-36">[36]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Deferential,
pleasure-phobic, servile, blameful, self-effacing. Encourage others to take
advantage of them. Deliberately defeat own achievements. Seek condemning or
mistreatful partners. They are suspect of people who treat them well. Would
likely engage in a sadomasochist relationship.<sup><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#cite_note-psychcentral.com-36">[36]</a></sup></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">These descriptions read like classic Womb Twin Survivor symptoms/feelings/traits
– the remarkably high incidence of similarities makes it plausible to ascertain
that Personality Disorders (PDs) are clusters of womb twin phenomena previously
characterized as such due to lack of Womb Twin Survivor Syndrome (WTSS) knowledge (established
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Disorder, its description sounds exactly like the inner life of a Womb Twin
Survivor.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If this were true, and
they are indeed the same thing, then these Symptoms of Disorder would actually be An
Appropriate Reaction to Womb Trauma related to Twin Loss.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we look at them that way, we dial-down
the “crazy” aspect and dial-in the fascinating understanding of how the psyche
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So what are the chances these are the same thing?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we look at research, it shows that
BPD does appear to be a distinct diagnostic entity, although it <a href="http://www.bpddemystified.com/what-is-bpd/co-occuring-disorders">co-occurs
frequently with other mental disorders</a> such as major depressive and bipolar
II disorders, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), substance use
disorders, eating disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and with
several other personality disorders.<sup><span style="font-size: 8pt;">3</span></sup><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Being that these are also textbook
symptoms of Womb Twin Survivor Syndrome, this seems to further the case.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Going further into the correlation between the two, we must
not only look at the symptoms – we must look at the cause.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is generally held that biological
and environmental risk factors interact to reach a critical level of brain
dysfunction resulting in symptoms of BPD.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Further, it appears that this critical degree of disturbance of brain
function can be achieved by a large amount of <u>biological risk</u>, sometimes
combined with a low amount of environmental risk, or as low biological risk
coupled with high environmental risk, or intermediate levels of both. <a href="http://www.bpddemystified.com/what-is-bpd/co-occuring-disorders">http://www.bpddemystified.com/what-is-bpd/co-occuring-disorders</a></span>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">A logical explanation of Biological Risk which seems to fit perfectly, is the pre-natal loss of a twin and the grief trauma suffered by the
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to put their twin identity or express the unknown trauma their body memory
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Multiple Personality Disorder because they are truly more
than one person, who lost a twin or multiple in the womb, who is severely
confused about whose life they are living.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Unaware singletons in charge of writing diagnostic codes and
ordering courses of treatment can only do their best, but unfortunately it’s
not enough given the twin/multiple epidemic we are facing… which brings us to
the the real issue: <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>there aren’t
enough practitoners in the know about pre-natal psychology and Womb Twin
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"PDs's are inflexible and pervasive due to the fact that such behavior
may be ego-syntonic (i.e. the patterns are consistent with the ego
integrity of the individual). This behavior can result in maladaptive
coping skills, which may lead to personal problems that induce anxiety,
distress or depression". </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial;">I would like to put forth the question: What if the
ego-integrity of the individual is already compromised/damaged at birth
due to womb twin loss, resulting in anxiety, distress, depression which
is then exacerbated as life continues without acknowledgement or
remedy? Are we sure we are putting the right horse before the right
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">It’s my belief we can use Womb Twin healing techniques to
get to the cause of the problem for many sufferers of PD’s who are wrongly
labeled and mistreated because they are being misdiagnosed due to lack of a
better explanation – until now.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Perhaps not all of them are WT’s, but based on my research and work in
the field, I would guess many of these people are Womb Twin Survivors who don’t
know they are.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The quickest way to confirm the relationship between WTSS and
PD’s would be to treat these personality orders with the Womb Twin Healing
Path, preferably without traditional medicine/psychotherapeutic approaches, in order to
assess whether symptoms are alleviated.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>If lessening or diminishment of symptoms is achieved, then we can prove
a relationship exists between WTSS and PD’s and perhaps help people alleviate
these symptoms, which may really just be manifestations of keeping their ‘dream of
the womb’ alive (as well as expressing their twin nature, who uses these
devices to make itself known until we can know it consciously).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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Will Yamini feel the loss of her twin now that they have been separated via surgery<span id="goog_397464268"></span><span id="goog_397464269"></span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/"></a>, despite never knowing about her twin before? We are here for you Yamini!<br />
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<a href="http://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/Embryonic-Twin-Discovered-in-Womans-Brain-During-Surgery-300891281.html">http://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/Embryonic-Twin-Discovered-in-Womans-Brain-During-Surgery-300891281.html</a>Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-35835297299998810962014-10-02T13:49:00.003+01:002014-10-02T13:49:33.676+01:00Womb Twin is Alive and Flourishing!With Althea's passing, it is important we all recognize the significance of carrying on her work so that future Womb Twin Survivors get the help she worked so hard to make available. While this marks the end of Althea's active participation, it is by no means an end, nor is it a slowing down, instead it heralds a new chapter to take her work forward based on seven years of refining and effectiveness so that her legacy can be realized and utilized - particularly since the in vitro/selective reduction babies are coming of age. So here's what's next:
- Womb Twin as a non-profit organization is alive and well in St Albans, UK with Celeste Hardingham as Chairman, appointed by Althea.
- Womb Twin will continue indefinitely as an administration with a board of directors, however, it relies on donations so we need help with fundraising. Write a letter of request to 20 people with the womb twin donation link (from website) so that they can make direct donations. It's that simple and you never know until you ask! Remember, We no longer have Althea's efforts to populate the donation pool, so all hands on deck!
- Wren Publications will be administered by Philip Hayton, Althea's son. What a blessing to have his help managing Althea's vast world of books which she published herself out of her determination to help womb twin survivors of all ages get the material they need, and which is available nowhere else.
- Keep Spreading the word about this syndrome and Womb Twin organization in order to raise awareness, so that those who need help can get it, and hopefully to help prevent future cases.
-Expand the work in guiding Therapists, which was Althea's last effort "Ripples from the Womb" yet which was only the beginning of a much-needed way to bridge traditional therapy with the special needs of this under-the-radar population. In other words, if those who need help don't seek us out, we can at least prepare therapists to identify and then treat womb twin survivors.
Onward and Upward, it's time to reciprocate Althea for her generosity of spirit and pay her work forward into the world now...Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-65415002676330546972014-08-19T19:24:00.001+01:002014-08-19T19:24:33.547+01:00Founder & Pioneer of Womb Twin, Althea Hayton, leaves rich legacyWith great sadness, let it be known that pioneer and "Goddess of All Things Womb Twin" as I liked to call her, Althea Hayton, has left our little world for the great beyond. She passed peacefully with loved ones, succumbing to ALS on Wednesday. Though this loss will be felt surely by all who ever came into contact with her, the impact of this loss long term cannot be measured. The progress she made to identify and treat a condition so off the radar, has not only saved and improved lives directly but has radically transformed everything we know about humanity. She did so much in the past seven years to establish this syndrome and its healing path, this leaves much for us to build on for an idea whose time has not yet come but is getting nearer. As the person who received the most guidance & mentoring from her, both personally and as a practitioner of her work, I shall endeavor to pass on the knowledge to keep the spark alive and to do the work, raise awareness, and continue to make Althea proud by helping people with her wisdom.
It's up to all of us now to make Althea proud given the rich legacy she has left us and we know too much now to ever turn back...
Farewell, Althea, Let us pray that you are at Peace with your womb twin, Ben, together again at last!
Love & Blessings
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Althea Hayton, March 2014, at the womb twin capital of the world - the white structure is her Conservatory where many powerful breakthroughs occurred.Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-33816690119824888052014-08-03T21:34:00.002+01:002014-08-03T21:34:12.449+01:00It All Originates from the WombWhether you are a living twin, a twinless twin or a womb twin survivor, your in-utero relationships gave you an awareness singletons don't have. These early imprints created dynamics that play out in relationships, which can be harnessed & healed, when made conscious. Many people find it hard to believe early loss of a twin or multiple in the womb can affect someone. In my experience of working with many twinless twins and womb twin survivors - of all genders, zygosities, ages - the earlier the loss, the deeper the trauma. That being said, let us be grateful that the twinless twins mentioned in this article, got to be born and have a relationship with their twin. Each sacred day, hour, moment they had together was a cherished gift before it all changed forever...
https://abcnews.go.com/Health/twinless-twins-grieve/story?id=24780120Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-24118789597249611572014-05-15T21:50:00.002+01:002014-08-07T05:47:19.302+01:00Precious Love Website<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have a website dedicated to twin loss of all types. It has other types of loss on it as well but mainly twin loss. I post twin loss articles from other websites as well as touching stories. I also have my twin loss story on there with pictures. <a href="http://precious-love.com/">Click here</a> to view. </div>
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Hello everyone, I just wanted to mention that I posted a new blog to the "Womb Twin Blogs" page. The blog is in Spanish. Adrià has created this blog and did a very good job on it. <a href="http://nopuedosalvarte.wordpress.com/">Click here</a> to view it. </div>
Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-20382446596952284002014-04-06T19:00:00.000+01:002014-04-06T19:15:35.044+01:00A Hearing Miracle and Womb Twin LossBecause our earliest sensory ability to develop is hearing, even those who lost a twin in the womb very early will have sensed their twin thru their ears and skin, before they even have a heart or brain. The perception of sounds of blood, fluid, movement, and later heartbeats (twins/multiples, mother) are where the primary relationships begin. When a twin dies at this stage it can be such a shock to the surviving twin they become deaf as a way to shut down this channel of communication. Sometimes deafness occurs on the side where the twin was positioned in relation to the survivor.
One day I was approached by a living identical twin who had mild separation anxiety about his twin, which the other twin didn't seem to have, and on this particular day he seemed to be having a bit of an existential crisis so we went to his safe place in the park and sat under a tree. He was mourning who they would have been if their egg hadn't split and they had remained one omnipotent human being! This was an unusual sense of loss for a living twin so we did some work to discover there had been another one, a triplet male, who he had been closer to. We arranged leaves in a pattern on the grass to resemble where each was positioned in the womb and identified that this was behind his crisis, he went back to work feeling better.
Over the next couple days a miracle happened via technology and this person, who had always been deaf in his right ear, was suddenly able to hear with the help of Google Glass. Please read the incredible story (featured with his permission) here: <a href="http://www.fastcompany.com/3015749/voices-in-your-head-how-google-glass-lets-a-half-deaf-person-hear"></a>
http://www.fastcompany.com/3015749/voices-in-your-head-how-google-glass-lets-a-half-deaf-person-hear
It is worth considering that by acknowledging the loss of this third one, just before his Google Glass experience, something moved him closer to hearing so that when the opportunity presented itself his defenses could allow this moment of hearing in. Or perhaps allowed him a happy rather than painful experience at the very least. When we release the repressed pain, it gives us new energy to make new possibilities in our lives. And this story continues to have a happy ending and new beginning…Congrats to David on his recent move to San Francisco. He has purchased 6 womb twin paintings to take with him as he thrives far away from his East Coast twin.
Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-36372307999837529642014-02-23T16:39:00.001+00:002014-02-23T16:57:46.756+00:00How to Help A Very Young WTS? A Brave Mother Asks, Heralding A New Day for WTS EverywhereTo Womb Twin US - Monica,
My husband and I have two sons, a 3 year old and a 19 month old. Our youngest is a twin, and unfortunately we lost his brother 6 months into the pregnancy.
I have often wondered if the difficulties he is facing is linked to losing his brother. After today and reading blogs and information, I am almost sure of it.
For the most part he is a happy and healthy child. He laughs and runs and does everything little boys do. He isn't saying as many words as the "typical" child his age, but I am not worried as I know he understands a lot.
The "problems" are with his sleep and moods on some days. He will not fall asleep without me next to him. There have been times he has taken a nap on his own, but that is rare. He has now dropped his nap altogether. He still wakes up every 2-3 hours at night, and cannot sooth himself back to sleep. It takes me laying with him again to get him to go back to sleep. Frequently he wakes up screaming and is hard to sooth.
He is also very attached to me. Which is fine. But he wants to be held all day long or be right next to me. He will go off and explore around the house, or play with his brother, or play on his own, but it seems like he "checks in" with me a lot more frequently and intensely than his brother did.
I know he is only 19 months old. I know he can't go to therapy. But I was wondering if you had any advice or knew of anything I could do to help him.
Anything you can provide or any direction you can point me in would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much,
WTS Mom
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Dear WTS Mom,
First of all, let me say that being the kind of Mother you are to research this is validating to your son and to us all. In fact, it heralds a new day for WTS (womb twin survivors) and their families everywhere. For you to have the inquisitiveness and courage to ask what you can do to help your son, regardless of your own feelings about this loss, is hugely rare and I can’t thank you enough for contacting us.
Baby WTS are in extreme twin replacement mode. In order to manage the shock of living on earth without their twin, mother becomes “m(ain)other” as do the primary relationships in succession of their twin. The pain of loss is buried in adapting to making these relations their twin since that’s all they know. They are here so they must cling to survival but they have already learned it is a perilous journey and people cannot be trusted because they disappear and cause pain in ways too big for a tiny baby to navigate.
Toddlers get worn out with separation anxiety, checking to make sure the world is reliable. Trust and consistency are huge in a world where things come and go without saying goodbye. Where mastery of the universe is hard-won but empty without their twin. Incessant crying and irritability, seeking mom out, unable to self soothe are all signs that a WTS needs assurance that the people with whom they are bonding, won’t disappear forever. They are frustrated with good reason, they are vulnerable, insecure and limited and must cling to life. They often feel their twin got the better end of the deal as they learn to navigate solo. They need constant assurance that they will be ok, others will be ok, life is ok.
Sleep becomes a regressive womb time when babies can feel the watery world of their twin memory, not bound by air, time or light or people who aren’t their twin. This regression to their true nature is important for their replenishment as they sleep, it soothes them from the shock of living solo. On the other hand, this can be the time when PTSD-charged memories are accessed – where the baby relives the unspeakable horror they experienced during, and following, the demise of their twin. Depending on when and how this happened, all details will shape the complex which continually gets laid down as the brain develops, since much of the original trauma is stored in body memory due to timing of the trauma against limbic embryonic development. Your son was already 6 months a twin before they were separated (to put this in perspective, I was born at 6 months and am a fully functioning person developmentally.) The key is to download it into the brain as it develops, so that it can be expressed and healed, rather than repressed and buried. What you resist persists, ignoring it won’t make it go away, it will most likely make it worse.
Thus begins a lifetime of synchronistic extreme duality, which is also an expression of his twoness.
Although nighttime/dreamtime is synonymous with the subconscious, and can be scary for all little ones learning to be conscious, it sounds as though your son may have lost his twin at night and may be waking up in terror at that time for this reason. The realization that he is alone while suffering the PTSD loss of his twin causes him to need a twin replacement and mother more than normal. You are doing the right thing by being this "twin surrogate" and bless you for having the courage to face this in light of the fact that you suffered the loss of a child and have your own grief process. On that note, any info you can share about how the twin went at 6 mos would be helpful in understanding the dynamics of the womb imprint.
I strongly encourage you to stick it out – you must walk through the flames to get to the other side, not around them. Avoidance, ignorance, separation only adds fuel to the fire. Meanwhile here are some tips:
-Give in to being the twin replacement as much possible, in order to ease his transition to trusting relationships again. Play peek-a-boo games to remind him that people disappear but come back smiling.
-Leave your scented scarf in his crib at night to ease the pain of sleeping alone. Sleep with him as needed (no Ferber Method) knowing this is a surrogate bonding time that helps your son, which you both will outgrow when it’s right for you.
-Teach boundaries, yes, by all means this is crucial to WTS who have little/none, but give in to them without beating yourself up for it. WTS need constant duality as an expression of their twin nature, so don’t feel hypocritical, tune in to their flip-flop game so you can honor their alpha/beta duality and not get worn out in confusion.
-Give him several twin replacements so that he learns to rely on more than one, this will give you a break and allow you both to transition from each other – it also provides an all-important back up if one gets lost. On that note, whatever symbols you use as twin replacements should be replaceable, this means buy several and store them away so that if ever one is lost there is another to avoid retriggering the trauma of loss.
-Allow your son to put his favorite stuffed animal into a pillowcase (or cover it with a laundry basket) and then reveal it, this control over such events will go a long way in helping him feel secure following the uncontrollable disappearance of his twin.
-Use the power of symbol over words and engage all senses: sight, sound, smell, space. Recognize his hypersensitivity and brilliance.
-Use aromatherapy: lavender and marjoram in baths, in room at night, will calm his separation anxiety and promote sleep.
-Recognize your own grief/loss and keep it separate from his; when appropriate, bring it together with his so that he isn’t alone with his loss.
-Elicit info about his womb story while it’s fresh, figuring out the dynamics of the intrauterine imprint will help us help him. Talk about what you remember of his twin too, commiserating may seem like bringing up pain but it has the opposite effect to a WTS who always feels pain, it helps them feel less alone with it which is a huge comfort when being alone is the problem to begin with.
Identifying details that will help guide his course of treatment: was his twin identical or fraternal? male or female? how did his twin perish? how long was the twin in distress? what name shall be given to this lost twin? birth details? premature/nicu/incubator? (provide timing) IVF/ART? other complications/circumstances?
-Be the vehicle of expression for the unspeakable, encourage him to talk thru you and then speak very matter of factly about his twin, the WTS energy and verbal reactions will guide you and you will be amazed at what he knows.
-Read “Two Little Birds” and “Koko’s Magical Gift” to your son, it will go a long way toward bridging his inner and outer realities. See more age appropriate info and resources by going to Womb Twin Kids: http://www.wombtwin.com/womb-twin-kids/4578498382
-Read the work of Allesandra Piontelli. John Bowlby’s work on Attachment & Loss, Louise Kaplan Oneness to Separateness: From Infant to Individual. Consider contacting Claudia Pinheiro of Womb Twin Portugal, she has extensive knowledge about working with babies and is a WTS as well as the mother of a WTS.
What you are already doing for your son is on track and beyond what any of us could hope for. Thank you for this tremendous gift. I look forward to advising you as your little WTS grows, so do keep us posted. This work can begin at any age, in fact it already has so let’s keep our blinders off as we walk the road of preventative healing together.
Please feel free to share more about your son and how these techniques may have worked for you both.
Monica - Womb Twin USMonica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-90899360216919142752014-02-16T11:30:00.000+00:002014-02-16T11:30:03.172+00:00Multifetal pregancy reduction - whats your opinion?<br />
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All comments welcomed! Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-68183224595919479592014-01-15T19:52:00.001+00:002014-01-15T19:52:25.202+00:00Vanishing twin and womb twin survivors (playlist)Vanishing twin and womb twin survivors (playlist)Womb Twin World Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11590190034990099692noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-38100378270065467862013-12-31T20:58:00.002+00:002013-12-31T21:15:51.667+00:00Happy New Year - twindr.com is coming in 2014!Dear Womb Twin Survivors,
I'm excited to announce that a new healing portal called twindr.com will soon be available to Womb Twin Survivors who want to connect, heal and share their process interactively online. Harnessing technology, this new modality will provide a tool for Womb Twin Survivors to be guided along the healing path, with a rating scale of the techniques so they can be measured for effectiveness, and a place for expression which documents healing journeys. It’s like a personal scrapbook of transformation which continually helps others on the path and reserves your spot in Womb Twin History! Here are the preliminary details:
Site name: twindr.com ~where former twins and multiples connect and heal~
• 12 Healing Steps will be presented via video featuring proven techniques presented by Monica Hudson based on Althea Hayton's Steps to Healing
• Members will document & share their personal healing process for each step via posting of text/photos/video
• Members will give each step an effectiveness rating upon completion at their own pace
• Upon finishing the 12 steps, members graduate to Twindividual status
What is a Twindividual? A former twin/multiple who has healed the grief of their in-utero/post-birth loss and reclaimed their life as an individual who will always be a twin at their core.
Twindividuals can stay in the community via continued interaction providing guidance to help other Womb Twin Survivors become Twindividuals
Other features include:
• Question of the Month - with answer board
• Discussion Topics Board - click to connect on specific issues organized by topic which are of interest to Womb Twin Survivors
• Resources – Find practioners around the world who are adept at understanding/treating our special needs
Here you will interact/share/post and see/read what others around the world are doing along the healing path! (don’t worry - this is a private community, the general public won’t have access)
You Can Heal! You Can Reclaim Your Life! You can go at your own pace! You Can Heal Others!
Our natural selflessness and shared experience make us the best candidates to help ourselves and each other so let’s stop wasting time waiting for the world to get it and do what we can, it really is up to us!
The target date is Feb 2014 of the initial test program which will be offered to 25 people before becoming widely available. If you are interested, please sign up immediately to secure your place by sending your responses to the MEMBERSHIP APPLICATION questions below to twindr.com@gmail.com.
If you are not interested in twindr.com but would like to be added to my contact list, please email me! As the only healer in the world trained directly by Althea Hayton (who has just retired as Chairman) I am keen to build my own database so please do send me a quick email so I know how to reach all you magical and amazing Womb Twins. Meanwhile, if you have any questions, please feel free to ask.
Happy New Year!
Monica Hudson
twindr.com@gmail.com
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(apologies for the lack of spacing, it's typical that our blog even has separation anxiety!)Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-33792225797732399372013-12-21T14:52:00.003+00:002013-12-21T14:53:22.047+00:00Celebrating international Womb Twin Day today!Today is international Womb Twin Day - a day of remembrance in honor of our lost twins who didn't make it to this world.
This day was chosen because it is also Winter Solstice, the darkest day before the light. I know that I didn't even know how dark my world was until I found this work, healed, and got to the light...so it is a very fitting day to symbolize our journey.
This month also marks a notable time in Womb Twin history with the announcement of Althea Hayton's retirement. Our fearless leader is moving out of her role as Chairman of Womb Twin, so her passage also signifies transition...how can we make this time of darkness a time of light and hope for our community? We all need to step up and be the champions and leaders of this cause, it's up to us now and let us be grateful that we found this path at a time when Althea was so available to us. THANK YOU ALTHEA, we will forever be grateful to you for your genius to think of this, your dedication and courage to see it through and your love, caring support and supreme generosity of spirit. We got Althea's spark and now it's up to us to go light fires in the world and not let the embers die out. Don't let all her hard work fade at a time when more womb twins in need are coming to fruition every day.
To do my part, as the only healer in the world trained under Althea's supervision, I realize I can't do it alone so I have decided to harness technology to create a healing portal to allow womb twins all over the world to heal themselves and each other. Twindr.com will be rolled out in early 2014 so if you're interested in joining please email me your contact info at moniglam@gmail.com. More info to come soon.
This year I feel so far down the healing path that I don't feel any particular rituals are needed, I remember my womb twins in my heart all the time.
And my twin appears in the form of pennies, though not as often anymore because I've healed, but last night there were two on the subway platform where I stood, she included one for her identical twin she lost (we were fraternals who each absorbed identicals very early) so that was her way to tell me she was celebrating womb twin day too!
I am celebrating womb twin day today, me and my twins' birthday tomorrow, my twin's death the following day so that takes me right to Christmas Eve and Christmas. But my holidays will be spent working on Twindr.com because I'm so inspired to get it going, particularly after a an amazing session this week with a new womb twin survivor from Texas who found in this work the miracle he prayed for and that makes it all worthwhile.
Happy Holidays starting with Womb Twin Day!
Monica - USAMonica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-29505593623445336582013-08-26T08:24:00.001+01:002013-08-26T08:24:49.042+01:00Womb Twin Survivors: Story 26: I was always asking if I had a sibling s...<a href="http://wombtwin-survivors.blogspot.com/2013/08/story-26-i-was-always-asking-if-i-had.html?spref=bl">Womb Twin Survivors: Story 26: I was always asking if I had a sibling s...</a>: When I was a child, I would repeatedly and stubbornly ask my mother if she or my father had had a child prior to their marriage because I felt sure I had a sibling somewhere...<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-88287152081661765132013-02-23T19:04:00.000+00:002013-02-23T19:04:39.336+00:00Mexican Artifacts provide ancient evidence of Conjoined TwinsWhile on vacation in Mexico recently, I came across these images in a book of artifacts which represent Conjoined Twins in Pre-Hispanic times - and just for good measure I couldn't help interpreting images (also below) of alpha/beta twins and the strong womb twin survivor!
<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VvJBNBFRY0o/USkSVluGRgI/AAAAAAAAAGc/0wb_jMLEuMA/s1600/mexmorph2.jpg" imageanchor="1" ><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VvJBNBFRY0o/USkSVluGRgI/AAAAAAAAAGc/0wb_jMLEuMA/s320/mexmorph2.jpg" /></a><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0bwZv4rmOF4/USkSYmY6mMI/AAAAAAAAAGk/D70vfh5ZbUo/s1600/memorph3.jpg" imageanchor="1" ><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0bwZv4rmOF4/USkSYmY6mMI/AAAAAAAAAGk/D70vfh5ZbUo/s320/memorph3.jpg" /></a><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-22clEPMQpfE/USkSbH8T6YI/AAAAAAAAAGs/juVwq_ZXQGs/s1600/mexmorph6.jpg" imageanchor="1" ><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-22clEPMQpfE/USkSbH8T6YI/AAAAAAAAAGs/juVwq_ZXQGs/s320/mexmorph6.jpg" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Cmol4atM4aA/USkSfExjerI/AAAAAAAAAG4/YAetB3mbWIM/s1600/mexmorph.jpg" imageanchor="1" ><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Cmol4atM4aA/USkSfExjerI/AAAAAAAAAG4/YAetB3mbWIM/s320/mexmorph.jpg" /></a><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Qcbjn9KWg-c/USkSgODjMFI/AAAAAAAAAHA/JF3ypO_UCVE/s1600/mexmorph4.jpg" imageanchor="1" ><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Qcbjn9KWg-c/USkSgODjMFI/AAAAAAAAAHA/JF3ypO_UCVE/s320/mexmorph4.jpg" /></a>Monica Hudsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14503853555312300080noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732688919601525360.post-74792842111302742532012-11-27T09:26:00.001+00:002012-11-27T09:26:59.945+00:00A Healing Path for Womb twin Survivors (the paperback book) - available from today!<a href="http://wombtwin-survivors.blogspot.com/2012/11/a-healing-path-for-womb-twin-survivors.html?spref=bl">A Healing Path for Womb twin Survivors - available...</a>: My new book, the product of ten years of hard work, is available today! You can get it 1. via Wren Publications ( no postal charges added<br />
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2. Any Amazon online store ( ignore them when they say it will take 3 weeks....)<br />
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3. Any bookstore: ISBN 9780955780851<br />
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The long-awaited sequel to "Womb Twin Survivors: the Lost twin in the Dream of the Womb". Nearly ten years in the making and the result of intensive research, this book sets out in detail a healing path for womb twin survivors in thirty steps. This pathway to healing has been tried and tested by hundreds of womb twin survivors who used the Healing Path ebook as a guide.<br />
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A self-help book for womb twin survivors, who are the sole survivors of a twin or multiple pregnancy. Thirty steps to healing, including the background theory, practical steps and self-development exercises. Derived from hundreds of interviews with womb twin survivors over many years, a path to healing is documented in full detail, illustrated with real stories and case studies of womb twin survivors at various stages on their journey.<br />
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• Fully illustrated<br />
• Tables, checklists and practical exercises <br />
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Includes specific advice and help for the sole survivors of:<br />
• A monozygotic (identical) twin pair<br />
• A dizygotic (fraternal) twin pair<br />
• A multiple pregnancy - triplets, quads or more.<br />
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<i>Brings hope to the vast number of womb twin survivors on this planet. But, more than just hope, it provides practical tools to enable us to wake up from our self-defeating dream and become the strong, complete individuals we really are.</i><br />
Jon, womb twin survivor, Australia.<br />
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</i> <i>An enlightenment to read, and to be able to recognise yourself between the words, I have been given a push into the right healing path with enough knowledge to succeed.</i><br />
Dee, womb twin survivor, South Africa.<br />
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<i>Splendid, full of light and written with a simplicity that comes from knowing something very profoundly. Althea takes her readers by the hand and leads them along their healing journey, shedding the light of understanding on each of the thirty steps. Each simple step has a solid foundation in science and research and echoes my own work in this field. Womb twin survivors can follow the footsteps of those who have already gone the same way, the first one being the author.</i><br />
Maria Angster, therapist, Hungary. (Author of, “Twin stories. Lost twins in family constellation and psychotherapy")<br />
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<a href="http://altheahayton.com/wren/healing.html" target="_blank">Order your copy today!!</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0